Wedding ceremonies should begin without the bride and groom being hungover from the night before. Otherwise, the couple completely looks angry or lost with emotion. Does this sound obvious? It happens about once every few years.
Young folks, fresh out of college with a chip on their shoulder get engaged for the better but as for a very small handful, "saving face" and "going through with it" is the battle cry the night before the ceremony and a full-on drink fest of "yes, I did it!" mentality takes over to rationalize getting smashed. The "yes, I did it" referring to the ceremony rehearsal.
With only weeks before the wedding date, these souls who found out only after spending thousands, that maybe they were not ready but couldn't get the voices out of their head. The voices, comments and negative advice from family, friend and foe discouraging them not to get married. In some cases, hearing "you can't pull it off" or "you can't do it". They were in too deep and nonetheless bound by their leadership and reputation of not being quitters. Perhaps even the mind set of "I'll show you". Remember Jerry McGuire?
What would you do? Would you cancel everything and lose all your vendor deposits? Are you in the know if you are really in love versus being in love with getting married? It's common for any bride to doodle her new last name repeatedly for months after he "pops" the question.
In the fog of love, there is a war among our drive for happiness. Sometimes the sense of completeness and fulfillment come from proving to others what we can or can not achieve. However, deciding to get married is not an accomplishment. Anyone with a drivers license and a willing partner can get married. What makes a wedding ceremony and reception very special is the family, friends and a loving couple bound by their true spirit. This, everybody can feel, see and believe in order to celebrate at your reception. You can't fake a hangover if you are really hungover. - http://www.theprodjteam.com/ The Pro Dj Team
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